Bad Driving Instructor? 7 Ways to Tell It’s Time to Move On

Learning to drive is a significant milestone, and the right instructor can make all the difference in your journey to passing your test. But what if your lessons aren’t going as well as you hoped?

We spoke to six experienced driving instructors – James, Sarah, Mo, Hamza, Patrick, and Makena – who together share over 120 years of experience and have helped hundreds of students. Their expert insights will help you determine when it might be time to switch to a new instructor.

1. Lack of Clear Communication

"A good instructor should explain things clearly and adapt their teaching style to suit your learning needs. If you constantly feel confused about instructions or don’t understand why you made a mistake, it could be a sign that your instructor isn’t the right fit for you," says James. Driving lessons should be structured, and feedback should be constructive. If your instructor is vague, impatient, or not providing clear guidance, it might be time to look for someone else.

2. You’re Not Making Progress

"Every learner progresses at a different pace, but if you feel like you’ve been stuck at the same level for too long, your instructor might not be teaching in a way that works for you," says Sarah. If you’re taking lessons regularly but not advancing, consider whether your instructor is identifying and addressing your weaknesses. A good instructor should challenge you and ensure you're moving forward in your learning.

3. You Feel Uncomfortable or Anxious

"Learning to drive can be nerve-wracking, but your instructor should make you feel safe and supported," says Mo. "If you dread your lessons or feel nervous around your instructor, it could be a problem." A great instructor creates a positive and encouraging learning environment. If you feel pressured, stressed, or even intimidated during your lessons, you may benefit from finding someone who makes you feel more at ease.

4. Poor Time Management & Professionalism

"Punctuality and reliability are essential qualities of a professional driving instructor," Hamza explains. "If your instructor frequently cancels lessons at short notice, arrives late, or ends sessions early without good reason, it's a red flag." Your time and money are valuable, and your instructor should respect both. If they’re unreliable, it’s worth looking for someone more dependable.

5. They’re Not Tailoring Lessons to Your Needs

"Every learner is different, and a good instructor recognises that," says Patrick. "Your lessons should be designed to help you improve your weaknesses and build confidence."

Makena adds, "If your instructor follows the same rigid structure with no flexibility, you might not be getting the best experience. The best instructors adapt to your progress and ensure you're learning at the right pace."

6. Lessons Are Shorter Than Agreed

"If your instructor is consistently cutting your lessons short, that’s a serious issue," warns Sarah. "You’re paying for a full session, and you should get the full learning time you were promised." A good instructor will ensure you receive the time you need to practice and improve, rather than ending lessons early without explanation.

7. Rude and Dangerous Behaviour

"A professional instructor should always maintain a high standard of behaviour," says Mo. "If your instructor does any of the following, it’s time to report and switch immediately:"

• Using their mobile phone while you’re driving.

• Shouting or swearing at you.

• Using inappropriate language, either in person or in messages.

• Using unnecessary physical contact.

These behaviours create a hostile and unsafe learning environment and should never be tolerated.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right driving instructor is crucial to your success on the road. If you recognise any of these signs, don’t be afraid to make a change. As Sarah says, "You’re investing in your future as a safe and confident driver – make sure you’re learning from someone who truly supports your journey."

Are you thinking of switching instructors?

Research well, ask for recommendations, and most importantly, find someone who helps you feel confident behind the wheel.

For more advice, read our guide: How to complain about my driving instructor?

Stay safe & Happy learning!

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